Sexual Modules

TO SEXUALLY satisfy your woman, you first have to be having sex with her, of course. For that to happen, she needs to want to have sex. And for THAT to happen, it helps if you have a plan.

But what kind of plan? What does that even mean?

Think of a plan as a two-stage process: First, you connect with her. Help her feel relaxed and connected with you. That's stage one. Then get her aroused. That's stage two. At that point, she wants sex, and you can have sex.

So what kinds of things are in stage one? It depends on what you and your woman enjoy. If curling up together on the couch watching Cheers re-runs puts you both in a relaxed good mood, that could be a stage one. Or giving a massage. Or taking a bath. Or going for a walk together, holding hands. Or having a drink together listening to music and talking. Or dancing. These could all be stage one.

You can think of these as kindling. You don't start a fire by lighting a match and holding it under a log. It doesn't work that way. You start small twigs first. That's stage one.

Okay, stage two. What gets her aroused? After a normal massage, you could massage her breasts and pussy. That would be stage two. If it turns her on to suck your cock, you could ask for that (and then before you come, after she's turned on, you could enter the "having sex stage"). You could watch a porno if you both like that. These would all be stage two. Whatever you find that turns her on goes in this category.

In the fire analogy, these are the bigger sticks. Once the bigger sticks are lit, you can throw on the log and it will burn.

So now you have several "modules" of stage-one items, and several stage-two modules. Now you can form a plan very easily. Depending on her mood and what's going on, you can pick a module out of the first stage, and one for the second stage, and that's your plan.

For example, "first we can watch Cheers and I'll hold her close and laugh with her, and then I'll ask her to suck my cock." You have a plan.

If you're already connected and your both relaxed and in a good mood and feeling affectionate, you are already in stage one. At that point, go to stage two. You can put larger sticks on already-hot coals.

Try to find more things to add to your "things that work" list. Collect more modules. You don't need a whole lot, but it's nice to have some variety.

If you want to have confidence and if you want her to respond well, have a plan. Now you know how.

How To Make Your Woman Happier

THE COUPLES who kiss and cuddle the most are eight times less likely to be stressed and depressed. That means your woman is much less likely to be stressed or depressed if you two are kissing and cuddling a lot. That means your woman is much more likely to be happy, and will be happier more often, if you're kissing and cuddling a lot.

Is this getting through to you? EIGHT TIMES less likely to be stressed and depressed. That is a huge difference.

Don't wait. Start today!

Your Kiss Can Awaken Her

...AWAKEN HER DESIRE, that is. Interesting fact: Men have testosterone in their saliva. In fact, many studies on testosterone use a very simple way of testing levels — they test the level of testosterone in the man's spit.

Another interesting fact: The biological source of sexual desire in both men and women is testosterone. If a man or a woman has a low testosterone level, their level of lust is also low. But give them a dose of testosterone, and their desire to mate increases.

Put these facts together, and what you realize is that if you made out with your woman more, she would get a dose of your testosterone, which would raise her desire to mate with you.

Remember making out in high school? Remember how aroused the girl became? Why did you think that happened? Well, think again. How would you like your woman to get that aroused today? Kiss her with passion. Make out. Awaken your princess with a kiss.

More Than Meets The Eye

The following is a quote from the excellent book, The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure:

The area of the clitoris is far larger than described in conventional anatomy texts and most sex guides. The external tip, or glans, is really the tip of the iceberg — and if you know icebergs, they're like upside-down pyramids, and underestimating one can sink your ship. The glans begins at one end of the shaft and continues under the surface to where the other end connect to the suspensory ligament at the pubic mound. The shaft, like the glans, is very sensitive and responds pleasurably to stimulation. At the shaft's connection to the suspensory ligament, the clitoris spans out underneath the vulva alongside the vaginal opening in a wishbone shape, forming two legs, or crura, whose underground real estate extends all the way to the back forty of the perineum. It seems that our gal clitoris quietly became a real estate tycoon — albeit one drunk on pleasure.

Remember this: The clitoris includes much more than the little nub we've come to know and love. If you focus on the nub and forget the rest, she will miss out on a lot of pleasure.